I Quit My Job for The Life I Dream Of

 

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”
– Harriet Tubman

 

We only have one life to live

Go for it now, the future is promised to no one. Kanye west rapped on his song with maroon 5, “Nothing’s ever promised tomorrow today But we’ll a find a way And nothing last forever but be honest babe… It hurts but it may be the only way”.

I crashed my Mercedes on the 1st of January 2016. There were no injuries but it was clearly a near death experience and this was like a real awakening for me. What if i had died will i be here to write this post? Will i leave behind any Legacy? Will all the hustle and bustle of life mean anything? Will i be going to a 9-5 Job in Heaven? Will i goto Heaven or Hell? What if there is no Heaven or Hell and dying means to start all over again from scratch? We have only one life to live and the only thing that really matters are the memories and how much we have “lived”. The quality of a good life is not how long it lived but on the memories that it can savor and remember .

I crashed my Mercedes on the 1st January 2016

car wreck
Six Airbags Deployed, all wheels broken and wrecked!
After gliding in the ditch for a few minutes we came to a halt

 

Why i Quit my “Very Secure” Government Job

When i graduated from University of Calabar, Zoology and Environmental Biology (2:2), i did what every body usually did – I got a respectable Job in the Government.

I was the webmaster for Voice of Nigeria.  I connected with all the Editors and reporters, solved their problems, ensured the website ran at optimum, fixed all faulty bugs and broken down devices. It was an awesome job but i am Oliver Twist.

My whole life has always been fast paced and competitive, In my first year at the University of Calabar, i had the highest CGPA in the faculty of Science. I streamed the 2015 Presidential debate Live. I wanted to be like Bruce Wayne so i bought a Camry Muscle bat Mobile (allow me brag a little). All these actions are deep desires to excel in any endeavor. But regardless of this realization about myself, i still settled for working in a job and the addiction that comes with receiving a salary.

I started to self search and question my very existence, am i fulfilling my dream? Are my capabilities and Passions being used creatively, Can i make enough money to maintain my fancy life?, do i really have to climb up a corporate ladder for 35 years in order to retire with PENSIONS? How valuable will my pension be with the rate of inflation. All this led to the idea of developing a solution that can affect the lives of millions , and also make billions of Naira/dollars.

 

The Birth of MeterNG

meterNG Website
Buy Electricity Online here: www.meter.ng Running out of Electricity? Buy here with your ATM cards

I was in bed trying to get some rest then my electricity ran out. My prepaid meter showed zero units , meaning i had to go buy a recharge token. All the offices had closed and it occurred to me …why can’t i buy electricity online.

1st of July www.meter.ng was born and i started the company out of nothing with my partner Pureheart Agabaenwere. It was hell sourcing finances from family and friends, the experience only made me stronger.

One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in particular

Tony Robbins

The Awakening

Everything did not seem right that morning. I woke up on Monday 19th December with my stomach aching. I was going to quit send in my resignation letter today but i was extremely afraid.

I had felt this way before, two years ago. It was not the first time that i had tried to quit my job. The first time i left Abuja , travelled to Lagos and locked myself in a house for a whole month.

I could feel it that there was something missing, there was a void somewhere that needed to be filled. My job was great , it gave me all the time in the world yet an innate hunger kept nudging me that i needed a drastic change ..i deserved more. The thrill of making meterNG a reality had become an obsession, i was overtaken by the obsession to create. I submitted the Resignation letter and it was done.

This is the look Every One gave me when they heard i Quit My Job 

via GIPHY

 

How to Survive With No Job

I improved my web-designs skills , studied endlessly and started improving my self 1% everyday. It will not be easy launching out in the unknown with nothing but a zoology degree and an electricity company. There are over 6 million prepaid meters in Nigeria and meterNG’s mission is to provide convenience to every home that has an electricity meter.

I did not quit because i was a 100 percent certain i was going to make it, i was in huge amounts of debts and i only had a conviction and a gut feeling that i will not sit back and relax till i made huge contribution to the future.

The Best Way To Predict The Future Is To Create It

Abraham Lincoln

I feel free now, i am living my dreams now, i wake up everyday with a renewed zeal about life that i can take on anything that is thrown at me. There is a stirring in my soul and for the first time in a long while i feel i am on the right track to the destiny/destination that i desire.

Dreams can come true to only those who believe. 

This is my first blog post , i wish everyone a happy New year, don’t be afraid to take that leap and follow through with consistency  in every endeavor you venture in.

Everything that you need to be happy and fulfilled is within you, It is not within the external, material world. It is in honoring yourself, your passion and Your joy.

And, because I feel the abundance in my celebration of a simple, valuable life, I am beginning to attract financial abundance too. It’s starting to happen for me and it is growing daily.

Each day I keep following my passion and I keep trusting. I am a walking, talking proof that following your joy is not a faraway dream.

If it is happening for me, then it can happen for you. It is there, just waiting, for you to take charge

Have you ever tried to quit your job? Was it a tough choice? What do you need to let go in order to start living your dream life?

Lets us know in the comments section.

With Love,

Fela

 

 

22 COMMENTS

  1. Love this. You know am your biggest cheerleader. What does it take to pursue the life of your dreams? It takes letting go off and letting The old you die so that you can birth the new you. Am inspired. 2017 Take Over..

  2. Good one bro every puzzle fits with God by your side. Never do without him and watch as you triumphantly succeed in all that you do. Best wishes this year 2017

  3. The you I know is far better then the you the government job could make,…. so quitting VON what a quantum leap for you!!! Time to get your cake up

  4. The you I know is far better then the you the government job could make,…. so quitting VON was a quantum leap for you!!! Time to get your cake up

  5. Good stuff here man… I have no doubt you have all it takes to be great. I have been feeling the same way ..but at this point in my life , cant quit the job. My plan is to get all these ideas in my head, out of my head and into action. Tired of wishing, now its’ time to move. Procastination + seeking perfection has been my diggest problem and like i said to you…the new year mantra for me is…”dont seek perfection, seek to take action” …. fear is also something that I plan to embrace ( let’s not call it a new years’ resolution, it has a bad reputation ). Fear is that one thing that comes in different forms that tells us we are not enough….but we are…we truly are.. Recently I have been having a great liking for the NIKE brand…why? JUST DO IT. 3 words with great power.

    Success and best wishes to you in this new year. I trust everything will turn out right.

    • Thought to share this 2013 NIKE AD…ENJOY. I am going to print it and frame it:
      Too often we are scared.
      Scared of what we might not be able to do.
      Scared of what people might think if we tried.
      We let our fears stand in the way of our hopes.
      We say no when we want to say yes.
      We sit quietly when we want to scream.
      And we shout with the others,
      when we should keep our mouths shut.
      Why?
      After all,
      we do only go around once.
      There’s really no time to be afraid.
      So stop.
      Try something you’ve never tried.
      Risk it.
      Enter a triathlon.
      Write a letter to the editor.
      Demand a raise.
      Call winners at the toughest court.
      Throw away your television.
      Bicycle across the United States.
      Try bobsledding.
      Try anything.
      Speak out against the designated hitter.
      Travel to a country where you don’t speak the language.
      Patent something.
      Call her.
      You have nothing to lose
      and everything
      everything
      everything to gain.
      JUST DO IT.

  6. Classic….and he said he’s learning to write….if i catch you eh……WONDERFUL PIECE. I have already shared. Will be following your blog. The sky is the starting point for you bro. Stay blessed.

  7. This is inspiring. But you quit without letting some people like me in the loop of things. I’ve been sending you mails through VON and got no response but now I know why. I wish you all the best.

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